Life doesn't always unfold the way we imagined. Sometimes, it unravels. And in those unravelings, we are called to find a deeper strength, a more rooted grace, and a new way of living.
Recently, I had the honour of speaking with Rebecca Galli, an inspiring author and speaker from the United States whose life story is a remarkable testament to resilience, purpose, and the will to live fully in the face of unimaginable challenges.
Rebecca’s journey includes the sudden death of her 17-year-old brother when she was just 20, raising her children - two with special needs, and the devastating loss of her son at just 15. As if that weren’t enough, just nine days after her divorce, she was paralyzed by a rare spinal cord inflammation that began as the flu. In an instant, her life changed forever.
But this is not a story about tragedy.
This is a story about transformation.
Through all of this, Rebecca fostered an unexpected but deeply meaningful writing career, becoming a powerful voice for hope and healing. A phrase that helped anchor her in her darkest times came from a therapist many years ago:
“Live fully in the life you didn’t plan.”
These words became her mantra. They guided her through grief, uncertainty, and physical limitation. And today, they serve as a light for others walking through their own unexpected journeys.
What Does It Really Mean to Live Fully?
To live fully in a life you didn’t plan is:
To accept what has happened without letting it define you.
To seek out beauty, even when the heart is broken.
To create new meaning, even when old dreams fade.
To show up every day—not perfectly, but wholeheartedly.
To fuel yourself with purpose, connection, and self-compassion.
Rebecca reminds us that healing is not a destination, but a way of being. And even when we lose what we thought our life would be, we can still choose to show up, to love, to give, and to live—fully, honestly, and courageously.
Her story is a beacon for anyone who has ever whispered, “This wasn’t supposed to happen.”
Because while the life we planned may be gone, the life we’re living now still holds extraordinary potential.
If you’re navigating unexpected change or loss, may Rebecca’s journey remind you that you’re not alone, and that your story, too, can become a source of strength for others.
You can listen to our heartfelt conversation on The Sharon Fitzmaurice Podcast, where Rebecca shares her wisdom, and the practices that keep her soul fuelled daily.
You won’t want to miss this one.
Sharon Fitzmaurice
Holistic Wellness Coach, Author & Podcast Host